YAWN YAWN YAWN!! Avoidance again. It has never been about me or the Cafe - Have you not read that I told folks that they can sleep or eat somewhere else when they treatened to not Patronize those two Businesses. The folks who work there are fully aware of the RACISM against the Cafe and What I say on this ListServ. They are not for sale.
Anyways, Got your little feathers all ruffled up don't you. Well let me smooooooooothe them out for ya. I see you are Still not answering the questions or seeing the hypocrite that you and the others are. Still not trying to or admit to the Racist "ELEPHANT" in the Room.
0. Polluting -- another word is educating. Lots of light through the windows of the mind -- even got you and others using "cognitive dissonance", wrongly, but nevertheless -- glad it stuck and it is bothering you to the point that you further expose your cores. Don't worry, in the long run, it will help you and your children. I guarantee you that I have more actual friends from different cultures than you do - guaranteed.
1. The words were "you and the rest of your Klan" -- not the Klan. So, while they embrace some of the same qualities, THE Klu Klux Klan actually is like all "LEAD" and no Water!! By the Way, do you know that the KKK is very dense throughout the North East more so than the rest of the country?? Who knows who belongs to what organization.
2. you and your kind play -- all of you who avoid what has occurred and refuse to accept/admit the Racist and Prejudice Actions that has occurred. Still not interested in where you and your kind play. Those aren't freudian Slips.
3. passing as an African American - LMAO - maybe you missed my email address --
INDIANROB@Gmail.com. WOW!! Bright Fella aren't you! Please pay attention and read with intent of comprehension and not just skim - it would be nice but it explains all this rubbish you just wrote.
4. Homophobe my A**. I am open to having that conversation anytime. I just call it as I see it. Just like a woman not liking men looking at them like a piece of "Meat", I don't like Gay men looking at me in that manner. However, I don't have a problem with anyone "sleeping" with who they want - as long as they are adults who are able to consent - preferably 21 and over.
So you know, I have always supported Marriage Equality (PUBLICALLY - not quietly). Since you asked, I don't really get why one of the male (in 2 men relationships) has to be a "wife" or one of the females (in a two woman relationship) have to be a "husband" to get that done. Seems to me to be contradictory as it is not just to fit the definition of marriage being that of a "man" to a "woman". Seems to me that it would be that definition of marriage would need to be changed and also Gays utilizing the words Husband and Husband relationship and Wife and Wife relation instead of "husband and wife" would be more fitting and relative to being true to being Gay. But glad you asked !!!
But go figure - you are too smart for me - I am a "homophobe" because you have offered some proof - or is it just because you say so --- really dude!! Glad that I don't validate my "being" on you or anyone else.
4. Lead the conversation -- no one said that I was leading it. But interesting how your mind works in Identifying Me as a Leader -- That Psychological aspect of the Brain is something. By the way, Can you think of anyone more qualified -- if so, please bring them -- I have been trained in highly Racist Environments in an Indo-Guyanese/Afro-Guyanese (in a very Imperial British Guyana), Highly Racist in Indian/African American-White environment (Texas in High School -- West PLANO - Rich West Plano in the Mid 80's), Very Racist White-Indian/African American (University of Md) and of course my beloved DC -- in my life experiences of Racism. I have also travelled from Canada to the Tip of South America (not by swimming AND not illegally, I must add) so culturally, I am fully exposed.
Also, I have seemed to get he full accreditation from African Americans by BOTH their support and their silence of agreement when it comes to deciphering things in this Racial environment we live in. I think as of recent as Yesterday by Commissioner Ransom as to my ability to detect Racism. Maybe you can re-read her post and then contact her for Validation of her credentials. Have that discussion with her and see what she says. But maybe you skimmed that too. Re-read and address her and let's see what she thinks.
But, I am Kool - there goes that K(ool) instead of a C(lan) again when I am making a Caribbean Point - it's the Calypso in me. Why don't you lead -- You are welcomed to do so - I will definitely redirect you if you miss a thing or two in the softest of tones so you don't feel intimidated or scared so you don't have to bring the "colloquialisms" out of your satchel. So you know, this is not a "leadership" position I want or approach that we will have. It is just a discussion where respect and being honest is all we need and the gates of denial are allowed to be lifted.
5. So the Cafe is a perfect "storm" in this and is the actual most recent "hanging" that has occurred. If it was about the cafe/money, I sure would have not "offended" so many possible customers like yourself. Think about that. How about it was a good sacrifice to get this conversation because there is no "OUT"/doubt that Racism was the Key on this and how these people tried to get the community riled up because of fear of what young Blacks bring. So, it has never been about me or I would have just stayed quiet and let it all bet brushed under the carpet like it usually is - even from folks like you who want to impress me with your "twang" or should I say "intimidated" by your "swag" in use of words. Hilarious.
6 Not everyone is a "Racist". But there has definitely racist things that have been said on this list serv other than about the Cafe. By the way, it is almost impossible for Black Folks to be racist as we are not the Oppressor in America. While we may easily pick up racist attitudes more than Whites, our identification is more instinctual because of the genetic mutation that has occurred from years exposure and experience in picking up on the actions and Code Words -- like Commissioner Ransom stated yesterday. We do have Blacks who are in denial of this also.
7. Linda Sun - when making the statements are incriminating enough - and I wasn't the one who initially said that it was a Racist Statement - it was Kebob33. You tell me what these statements mean - "this is not real Art", "I know what real Art is" and "My father entertained dignitaries from different countries" (sounds like "I have Black Friends" to me) and the best of all - "Rob - I didn't know that you were African American, I though you were a White Teenager" (translates, Rob you don't write sound like a Black Person (Like Blacks can't write), you write like a White Person but Childish). Maybe you can help us out about Linda Sun.
8. Because you never lived "west of the park" means WHAT?? -- maybe you didn't have the $$$ to move West of the Park like some of our folks who moved here for "diversity"!!! Don't BS me - that's quite possible!
9. So I am Loving enough to sing along and support John Feeley in Singing Carols to kids and trying to share Joy and this makes me a "Puppy". Interesting. Maybe you should participate next year and take that "leadership" role as well - I would be glad to give up my spot as I Can't really sing well. My Pleasure - "New Elf". So you know, I must be a real PUPPY for I do a lot of things that I don't normally do for kids ---- Thanks! I also do it for Seniors as well.
Let me share this as I am sharing - when you get to the having a mother of the person you are dating move in with you and having to carry her 200lb body up the steps at night because she couldn't make it up to bed, let me know. Furthermore, when you have to pick her up when she "sh*t all over herself in the middle of the Night (many nights) and put her in the tub and help bather her, HOLLA at me. When you take care of her being on bed rest for two years and having to move her from side to side to keep her from getting bed sores - you let me know. That's how AFRICAN AMERICAN I AM -- I have so many "African American" BLACK CARDS from so many qualified folks that you don't have enough days in your life to take them away.
10. As for fronting - maybe you should ask someone. They will let you know that I don't "front" about anything. You should come "Holla" at me and take a dance. Don't let the straight hair fool you - hope you translate it into "curls".
11. Feel this -- Read with the intent of comprehension. Stop skimming.
12. So, thanks again for the compliments. I have three cats, a dog and I feed the cats, the raccoon and her baby and the possum and her baby who visits my house every night. I have helped pick up a dead dog who had started to decay with my neighbor's son - who didn't even know me when he came to ask me - just because his mom told him what I do in the neighborhood and sent him over.
13. Maybe you can ask around the neighborhood and see how many folks get fed and I help out (either with food, finances, renovations) without profit. Maybe you can ask some of the Neighborhood Schools (Public and Charter) as well as My Soror Tiffany at Turkey Thicket who they call when they need some assistance. I Don't see your name popping up when anyone needs help -- all without asking for recognition or any public thanks - even though it is at my detriment financially.
Oh, don't forget to check all through Woodridge and Brookland Neighborhoods for years before the cafe even was a thought!! Delivering Sand isn't all that I do. Maybe you should ask who plowed 12th Street from Monroe to Michigan on both sides so folks can park even though the Cafe remained closed after opening just to serv Coffee and food to DC GOVT. Workers. Hell, I even had a "fundraiser" for Vincent Orange back in 2001 and never met him then or even spoke to the man for maybe 5 years after - telling you that I don't do things with my hands out for something.
Anything Else - BRO!! Next time you want to "HOLLA", use a Mega-phone - someone might actually hear you. Now everyone knows who wants to Rise UP.
I hope you "FEEL" ALL OF THAT SIZE 11.5 FOOT in you .
Rabin in the HOOD!!
PS. Rabin in the Hood because I made the choice to stay here - not because I had no choice. When I had the Money to move to Mclean Va. or the West Side of the Park as my wife stressed me out to do because of the Schools and environment. I was the one who told my wife that she could go if she wanted to but my value was more needed here.
Who is a "BAMA" Now - Son!!
Rob Ramson
On Mon, Oct 1, 2012 at 1:41 PM, gaijinjb
<jsberg@gmail.com> wrote:
Rob,
I spoke with my dollars, going to the B Cafe. I haven't been there in a while, though. Not since you've spent the last few months, probably longer, polluting this listserv with your rants.
You're a racist, Rob. You're not a "treatment plant." Your words, on this listserv, are the lead. You are a perpetrator. You write that some people are in the Klan. You told me that "Last, I could care less about where you and your kind play." My kind? Do you play on special black tennis courts? I know you can't play on African-American ones, try as you might to pass strange, to play it off like you're a leader of the community. You're also consistently homophobic and bigoted towards gay members of the community, be they black or white.
And yet you want to lead this conversation? I can't think of any bama less qualified than you.
You seem to think this is all about you. Dress it up in the guise of structural racism, but deep down it always comes back to the Cafe, doesn't it? Six white people protested, and now everyone is racist? Linda Sun didn't like a mural? Must be because she's racist, right? C'mon son. When all you have is your race-based hammer, Rob, everything must look like a racist nail to you.
And I know you're all bark and no bite, or all hat and no cattle, if you prefer. I see you on the Christmas trolley, playing elf to John Feeley's Santa, the two of you singing carols along with my kids, who, by the way, are FIFTH (5th) generation Washingtonians who have never lived west of the park. So please stop fronting. You act like a wolf online, but you're just a puppy.
So yes, I see racism in Ward 5. I'm looking at it, identifying it, and combating it right now. I didn't see Allison's email, mostly because I tend to skim the subject lines and read posts based off that, but please believe I'm reading THIS instance of racism and acting on it. I don't speak up on this listserv often, Rob, but I'm speaking now. Feel me?
And by the way, you can tell a lot about people by how they treat dogs and cats. You can also tell a lot about people by the way they treat people.
Best,
Jake
--- In
ward5@yahoogroups.com, Rob <indianrob@...> wrote:
>
> Jake,
>
> I don't remember you speaking up when actual physical threats were made
> against me -- but you should tell us how to write responses to things that
> are offensive to us - remember, in almost all expression, we are responders
> to the Perpetrators.
>
> Anyways, now that you have localized Racism and Hypocracy to
> being "rampant" in Ward 5 -- *Did you read or hear about anything over the
> last year that was Racism and Hypocracy that you would like to share?* We
> did our best to identify it, describe it, share it. Isn't there anything,
> anything at all that you would like to agree with that would specify Racism
> and Hypocracy in Ward 5? Or maybe you can say that it hasn't occured in
> 1.5 years.
>
> Eg. "The mural is ugly. It isn't real art. I know what Real Art is".
> Linda Sun ---- and there was someone who was talking about Colonel Brooks
> coming down and made the statement hoping that the Mural would be next.
> There is nothing wrong with saying the Mural is Ugly - but the big question
> is why?? When the Why is "it isn't real Art and I know what Real Art is",
> then that links very strong to Racism.
>
> EG. - Kind of like the demand tones "Now" and the "What" iaddressed to
> Hazel about the Vendors in the Farmers Market that you and the rest decided
> to accept as soft tones. Are those the tones that you are admonishing us
> for but so willing left unaddressed a few days go - or you are going to
> tell me like some others -- "I don't read the list serv much" but yet that
> person knew everything that I referenced on different topics.
>
> But you and many others seem to have to hear the "N" word or maybe see a
> noose or the person being dragged by a truck to Pin the Racist/Racism word
> but deny all the other instances.
>
> So allow me to teach you something. There is a level of racism that
> usually get's overlooked by Blacks -- Kind of like the level of lead in the
> Water that comes to your faucet. When that "lead" Rises above a certain
> level, it becomes more toxic and needs to be treated.
>
> I, Mr. Peloquin, Commissioner Ransom and others are treatment plants.
> There is no easy way to say that there is "Lead" in the Water and the Level
> is Toxic. And for White Folks who are actively Purporting Safety,
> Community, Restaurants, Cafe's, Business, Health, etc. to continue to be in
> denial that it is toxic, excuse it, re-read entire transcripts to somehow
> find another reason than the HUGE RACIST ELEPHANT in the Room is more
> Abrasive, Disrespectful, Hateful, Unsafe expression.
>
> I didn't have TV (not because of poverty) when I was growning up so I had
> to picture the Words in the Books that I read. So, I can't help seeing
> your and others avoidance to Racism and Racists acts in our Community
> but yet so many of you want to talk about being humane to Dogs and Cats,
> etc. See the Problem. Maybe if you avoid it long enough it will go
> away!! Well, it is 2012 and Our Country is still Divided -- just look at
> the people in the Conventions. THAT MANY WHITE people must be some of the
> most STUPID WHITE PEOPLE in the Country to want to be part of the
> Democratic Party (Sarcasm).
>
> Just by looking, One Party represents what America was founded for and the
> other is almost totally NON-EMBRACING -- just look at the
> color/culture/racial make up. So ignoring things just isn't the
> answer. Just imagine if Whites Stood Up and Called the Protest Against the
> Cafe for what it is --- Racist/Prejudice, I guarantee that these people
> won't do it again. But because you tolerate it, defend it and habitually
> continue to deny it, they feel empowered and will continue.
>
> As for Mr. Peloquin (Jerry) -- He has more Kahunas (since you like foreign
> language) than you and the rest ever could get in 5 lifetimes. It takes
> courage to do what he and I have done even though we know that we will be
> labled "Horrible"/Violent (only me Racist) etc.
>
> I close with this - remember the Truck Stabbing incident by young Black
> Female and the Stoning of the House followed by the question "what could
> this man (who was White) have done to deserve this". Well, the same thing
> that a Black could have and would have been blamed for if this exact action
> was taken by a White Girl and the Man was Black in Georgetown.
>
> But hey - In Ward 5, you have No DOUBT that Racism and Hypocracy is
> everywhere - It just hasn't been Identified By Rob Ramson and Jerry
> Peloquin in that Last 1.5 years - of course, because those words make you
> and the others feel unsafe. *You and Luke and the rest should go ask your
> Black neighbors (Newcomers and Old Timers) if they have ever felt unsafe or
> us not having "good will".*
>
> Like I always tell folks, when you meet me, if you don't like me, I
> understand. If you don't Love and Respect me after knowing me for 1 year,
> then the problem is you - Guaranteed. *You don't have to like me or like
> the way I say and do things* but LOVE and Respect is a whole different
> Level - leaving me some room for mistakes, being wrong and not being
> perfect. Robin Hood Stole from the Rich just to feed the Poor.
>
> Rabin in the Hood!
>
> On Mon, Oct 1, 2012 at 9:02 AM, gaijinjb <jsberg@...> wrote:
>
> > **
> >
> >
> > <<If we meet together we need to do so with a clear understanding of the
> > ground rules. We must all feel we are in a safe space, assured of the good
> > will of all.>>
> >
> > See, this is what I don't understand. For months, if not years, now, you
> > and Rob have done everything in your power to make some of us feel that the
> > Ward 5 listserv is not safe space.
> >
> > I have no doubt that racism and hypocrisy are rampant in Ward 5, as they
> > sadly are everywhere, but to me your tone on this listserv is not, and has
> > not been, one of inquiry or of honest dialogue. I hope that will change.
> >
> > Best,
> >
> > Jake
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