Good Morning Brian,
I read this and even though I have only met your father once, I am absolutely positive that there was a whole lot that you left out. Over the few years that I have gotten to know you and interact with your sons, I must tell you that I have always been impressed with you and the type of Man you are -- inclusive of the type of father I see you being.
That being said, I could only say that even though Women are quite capable of raising strong sons, the fact that your father has been part of you entire life and has your admiration at such a high level, I am absolutely sure that the little that you said is but a drop in the bucket of who he is and all that he has done in your life and for all the youth he has interacted with.
And I am absolutely sure that he is proud of the type of Man/father you are. As a friend, I am very proud of your presence as a father to your sons and the other kids in our Community!! Keep up the great work and like you said -- little is shown about the awesome fathers in the Black Community -- and there are lots of them -- I have many personal experiences from my Brother-in-laws to so many of my friends fathers -- they all helped make me who I am today.
Rob
On Fri, Jun 14, 2013 at 10:21 AM, Brian Bradford <brianbradford42@yahoo.com> wrote:
Commissioner,I'd like to talk about my old man. I don't expect many people to read my sappy comments, but for those that do, and respond with testimonies about their dads over this weekend I will enjoy reading those post and learning about other people's pops.When I read the comment section beneath the Washington Post's article about the MBT attack I was angered and disgusted by the more than 100 racists comments about fatherless black teens. I remember going to John Burroughs Elementary the morning after The Cosby Show premiered. My friends and I high-fived each other on the playground and recited the jokes because we finally saw ourselves on network television for the first time (there isn't a single network show about an African American family on television today).Both of my dad's parents were deceased by the time he graduated from Cardozo. He sometimes tells me, "Ive been a grown man since I was 16." He was the first in our family to go to college. He went to Tennessee State University on a swimming scholarship. He got a BS in Health & Physical Education (don't say "gym" or "PE" around this guy), earned a Master's degree while waiting for my mom to graduate and then earned a PhD. Dad taught and coached at Anacostia and HD Woodson SHS for 38 years. He is an Omega Man, he is the superintendent of Sunday School at Allen Chapel AME Church, he is hilarious - he is Bill Cosby without the money. My dad started an all-black age group swim team in far northeast in 1972. That team has produced a few hundred college graduates, ministers, dentists, lawyers, career military men and women, school teachers, police officers - you name it. I have thousands of brothers and sisters because of his advising, mentoring and coaching teenagers. He has walked many of his former students down the aisle at their weddings, penned former students into his fraternity and served as granddad or godfather to more than a couple of babies.He has been married to my mom for 43 years. His strength and wisdom is my blueprint for raising my 4 sons alone (I mean, with his and my mom's help). Yesterday, when my oldest son graduated from middle school he listed "stand-up comedian" as his chosen profession. I know why.My dad's size 10 shoes are the largest I will spend the rest of my life trying to fill. He is my idol.Happy Pappy's Day to you all!BrianFrom: Gigi Ransom <gigifor5c12@yahoo.com>
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Sent: Friday, June 14, 2013 9:00 AM
Subject: Re: [ward5] Cmr. Steptoe's Father's Day Message: "Change your Circle/Stop the Lies: Tribute to Black Dads"
Comm. Steptoe,This is beautiful and the truth. Thank you for sharing!Albrette "Gigi" Ransom
From: "Steptoe, Carolyn C.(ANC 5B04)" <5b04@anc.dc.gov>
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Subject: [ward5] Cmr. Steptoe's Father's Day Message: "Change your Circle/Stop the Lies: Tribute to Black Dads" [1 Attachment]
Government of the District of ColumbiaAdvisory Neighborhood Commission 5BSingle Member District 5B-04Carolyn C. Steptoe, CommissionerA MESSAGE FOR YOU...CHANGE YOUR CIRCLE/STOP THE LIES:TRIBUTE TO BLACK DADS(Mary McLeod Bethune PCS "Father's Day Brunch" 6/13/2013) I am so tired of the hypeThe silly stereotypeThat presents our black fathers as anything but tight.So, for all those folksIncluding our dear PresidentWho did not haveDo not haveOr, simply fell from Mars and never met one.Let mePleaseProvide you a very concise,Personal listOf all the great black fathers I have in my intimate life.Some are my family.Others are my friends.These are my close circleOf intimate male friends.Committed dads.Needing no hoopla.No grandstand parade.Not the exception, instead always the rule.Doing what comes naturallyBecause that's what they saw.Simply remain at the Dad StandAnd be there for your kids.Sure, they faced personal trialsIllness, heartache and pain.But one thing stands assuredlyTheir daily livesDailyAre their kids.UpclosePersonalDay-to-day rearing.They stood up for themPained with themAnd dealt with fatherhoodThe best they could.In the houseIn their house.With their children.They saw their kids and their kids saw them.In spite of lifeDeathDivorceMarital separationOr income loss.Nothing ever stopped these fathersFrom showing upAnd participatingAlways loving their childrenDutiboundNever more than arm's length or a phone call away.I experienced my male circle advise their childrenAnd portray mature, strong moral character.I saw these black fathers' hearts sinkAs their children grewAnd took on new lives.Not needing their dads as much.You can see their sadnessAs they finally admitted that their little ones were grownBut, isn't that the natural partOf being a responsive parent?One who's been thereFrom the beginning?These regular, Black menNot anyone's tired,Trifling stereotypeDestructive stereotypes perpetuated by someone else's resentmentOr BitternessFear and anger.But those are just stereotypesSee, in my world, maybe like yours,Are zillions of great black fathersBlack fathers who are myEx-husbandsBrothersFamilyBeausFriendsNeighborsColleaguesAll standing high –And ... Almost ...Parallel to the most beloved black male father in my worldMy dad!Yup, couldn't ask for a better example of all that his children needed to become strong, Successful, resilient, practical and contributing.Nothing exceptional to this – just what is.So, on behalf of all the black fathersWho continue to get the same tired bum rapYa'll need to change your circle of influence, folks – change it up!Cause these black fathers got it like that!And for those that don't know... you better ask someone 'bout these black fathers.
Rexford Gilbert Steptoe, Jr.Philip AnthonyAdam B.Delaware B.Jerome R.John R.Jacinto R.Leonard C.Stanley L.Oswald L.Alphonso L.Locksley M.Bobby B.Claster W.Grayling W.Dante H.Dion P.George S.Tony S.Joelle's dadBJ's husbandCenetia's husband & dadPastor Elijah S.Deacon Lance Deacon SteveDarrell R.Ameen/Steve B.Troy I.Gregg B.Clayton R.Herb S.Bernard J.Rudy- neighborDave -neighborLeonard L.Cyril C.Dr. Pendergrast.Mr. WoodfolkDr. WatsonMr. WoodMr. CullerMr. KnightMr. WilsonErin W. - neighborMason's dadObi's dadTaylor's dadDeacon KevinTHIS LIST CONTINUES ON THE NEXT 500 PAGES....Add your own black fathers - and these lies will stop.moveDC is a citywide initiative to develop a bold, new vision for the District's transportation future and increase transportation choices for all.
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